Some of the places you can find me on line:

As to what you are looking for. If you just want to tell me how great I am, that is a nice thing to hear. However, if that is all you want to say, remember, about the fourth or fifth time you repeat that is gets very boring. So, if you want to have a friendly conversation, ask me some things. I am not great at keeping up a conversation, so you'll need to catch my interests. One way might be to read this web page and find out what I am interested in. If I see your picture and find myself really attracted to you, that will peak my interest, at least for a while. But in the end, there has to be some substance to our interaction, or I will get tired of it soon. By the way, I already have a few e-mail pen pals and find that takes a lot of effort, so I am not likely to exchange more than a few emails with someone.

Now as for anything sexual, let me say this first. Don't expect me to show any sexual interest in you unless YOU HAVE A PICTURE. No flirting, no cyber and certainly no meeting for sex. It's the 21st century, I can't believe anyone doesn't have access to a scanner, a webcam or a digital camera. I don't need naked pictures, your face would be enough, so you can get anyone to take a picture for you. If you ever expect to hook up with people on line, you really need pictures to send them.

Now as for actually meeting, well, it depends on where you live. I do travel, but it has to be for more than just a roll in the hay. Depending how far, I have to think if we'd have much fun together aside from sex. If you want to visit me, well, then you will have to wait for an invitation. You can fish for one, but I am not quick in inviting people from out of town so if I don't invite you, then forget about it. But if I do like you, I can say I really enjoy having visitors. If you want to play on line, I won't say I never do that, but chances are very slim.

If you do live close, I would be very interested in getting to know you, even if it is just for a chat, so let's talk about it.

Now I want to get something clear. I AM NOT SINGLE. I have had a lover for almost 30 yearsw. We have an open relationship and we are both very comfortable with that. We don't have any special rules about it, except that my commitment to him comes before anyone else. And, also, don't expect a 3-way, we don't do that.

One final thing, I find of the guys that I talk to on line there are certain men who seem to just assume I'm interested in them and proceed with the sexual questions. I find this really annoying and consider questions like "what do you like" or "top of bottom" to be too personal unless I've indicated a sexual interest in you. Pushiness is a real turn-off for me. POLITENESS and RESPECT are big plusses if you want met to like you. On the other hand, I do not like to be called "Sir" Its not appropriate in an on line conversation and makes me think you are a submissive looking for a master.

I hope this hasn't seemed rude. In any case it's better to seem rude now than later when we actually talk.