The Kind of Guys I Go For
 
 
 

A lot of people on IRC ask me what kind of guys I like and it is hard to explain. What I have tried to do here is show what physical traits turn me on. As near as I can figure, there are certain qualities that are plusses for me, and a guy just has to have a certain number of plusses. I am not totally aware of what all these qualities are and have suprised myself by finding out, for example, that a certain shape of a lower lip can really do it for me. Also non-physical traits can far outweigh physical ones in making me attracted, or not attracted to someone. Having said that, I now will try to tell you what kind of guys turn me on. What I have attempted to do here is to give some illustrations. Perhaps this isn't going to answer any questions for my readers or accomplish any purpose at all, but it certainly was fun putting this page together. I really enjoy these pictures and am excited about putting them on my web page.

A brief note here on how I chose these pictures. Although I have met a few of these men in person and talked to a some on IRC, I did not choose these pictures based on my relationship with them. Most of them I only talked to once. I hope no one is offended that their picture does not appear here, but I made a deliberate effort not to include people I have a close relationship with. I also chose people who had good pictures I could use. I chose these pictures to illustrate my point and this is not meant to be my votes for the best looking men on the Internet, although they are among the best looking, in my opinion.

If anyone is upset to find your own picture here, I'm really sorry. I'll be glad to remove it if you tell me about it. But please don't be too angry, remember the reason your picture got here is because I think you're gorgeous. I hope that counts for something :)



 
 
 
 
 




CUBS


It's hard to say what my taste in men is but there are a few things that definitely "work" for me I find that now that I am in my forties I am attracted to younger men and you will find that most of the men here are in their twenties. That is not a hard and fast rule, but that is the way things tend to be. The second thing that works for me is facial hair. Although I prefer short, full beards, a trimmed beard is nice too, possibly only a goatee or a nice bushy moustache. I like my men average size or a little on the chubby side. The guys in this section are whatI would call "cubs" which is one of those terms that means different things to different people. My definition of a cub is someone younger and smaller than a bear (that is, than me) and is attracted to bears. A lot of cubs call me Daddy and I find that areal turn on. If These guys look liketheir pictures, they are among the best looking guys I've seen. They fit my image of a sexy man. to a "T" and I would love to spend some "quality time" with any one of them







CHUBS


Although my ideal man would be be about 5'8" and weigh 200-250#, size is not very important to me. And while we're on the subject, neither is penis size. Small ones have their charm as well as big ones. And just like their organs, big men are quite sexy, just as smaller men are. The guys in this section are more what I'd call Bears, although the quinessential 'Bear' would tend to be older (like me). But, since for many, cub is a state of mind, they might perhaps refer to themselves as cubs. Who can keep up with allthe terminology anyway? The one thing I do know is that these men are very attractive.  Among them you will find some great beards as well as nice body hair. While we are on the subject, I should say that body hair is not important to me. That will be obvious, when you see the next section, Asians. I have found men who I considered too hairy, but on the other hand, naturally smooth bodies are something I can get into. Body shaving, however, is a turn-off for me. Ideally, though, I like a man with a moderate amount of body hair in a nice pattern. A "treasure trail" of hair going down the middle of the belly to a man's crotch is quite sexy.



 


 

ASIANS


Should I say "And now for something completely different"? Yes, this person who likes cubs and chubs also likes Asian guys. I can't say I've had a lot of experience in real life with Asian men. I live in the northeast and it is not so easy to find a guy who is Asian, is gay and likes big bears. On IRC however, I have met quite a few.   Unfortunately most of them are in Asia so there is little chance of ever meeting.  I am fortunate though that the Internet has allowed me to meet Asian men and become on-line friends with some of them. Why do I like Asians? It is hard to say, but I think it has to do with the nice skin and hair. Likewise skin and hair are important to me with white guys. Maybe that's another clue to help you figure out what I like. When you do, tell me, Ok?